The fear of being judged.

Each and every one of us have their own set of fears which tend to paralyze them temporarily when they come across those fears in their real life. From what i believe the worst fear that we experience is Being judged. It paralyzes our natural instinct of doing stuff what we please to or adore to. This fear kills many hopes renders a person lose all his interests and in worse case it inclines towards antisocial character which we have seen way too common in our society.

We all agree to this point many of us have came across this fear in their life once or more no matter how strong and courageous some of us are. It blocks us from moving forward and embracing the unknown and pursuing life passions. In past i have allowed the need of acceptance and fear of being judged in my way and trust me it has done worst to me. From participating in college events to as big as sharing my journal or writing down a blog, the fear of being judged has killed the best of me and made me just a mediocre!

Now its time i need to take a leap forward and don’t let it happen to me anymore. Its time when i decide enough is enough. To be honest we can easily overcome it if we try. Choose to live a life of intentions, accept ourselves for who we are and be proud of it Rather than living a life for the sake of pleasing others.

Cheerio!

Things that no one talks about..

It is often said, happiest people are the carelss ones and the ones effected deep inside are the most kind hearted.
They totally say it right! When you tend to give care, love and compassion to the one who doesn’t need it, you kill a piece of yourself every single day with it.
You do not expect anything in return but you do expect your love and care to be appreciated atleast. You donot have to be loved back, you donot have to be taken care of in return and you are just fine with it. This is when you realize, what you are giving is free from your self desire and from any impurity your nafs puts in. And lets say it out loud, the ones who are broken deep inside, they are always the one who are capable of these feelings because they are used to neglecting their self for others, they have made peace with their demons. Their inner self is nothing but an empty shell which doesn’t have desire to get filled, but instead wants to give and give.
Why do peole get scared away and tend to run when they see someone love them for them? Why do we all just run away from beauty of this relation that has its pillors deeply rooted in love and care. We all have been raised believing to this one mantra “love is basic to life, everyone craves for it” but when it comes to reality,we run from being loved. We have made everything related to this so complicated. We are the ones who choose to ride this boat but long before we realize that its getting real and true, we run. We hide and we refuse it. We do everything in our hands to push it away.
Lets just look around and aprreciate this beauty, long before its taken away from us.

Cheerio!